Simplify: 7 Guiding Principles to Help Anyone Declutter Their Home and Life

10 Questions to Help You Declutter

source: Eleaf

source: Eleaf

One aspect of having a simple home is to keep it free from clutter. While there are varying degrees of this and not everyone chooses to live a minimalist lifestyle, there’s no way to get around the need to declutter regularly as part of your simplifying goal.

1. Is this item something I use regularly?

A lot of times we keep gadgets, tools, toys, art supplies, et cetera around because they seem useful. However, it’s important to consider how often you actually use each item when deciding whether it’s worth keeping or should be given away. If you haven’t touched it in three to six months (or more), despite your best intentions, it is a good candidate for decluttering.

2. If not, is it something I love?

Of course, there are obviously exceptions to this rule (including seasonal items that you usually regularly in season). One exception I would always encourage you to make is for items you love. Keeping a painting from your grandmother that you love even if it doesn’t have a place in your current home is much different than keeping a snowcone maker that you have been meaning to use for two summers but never seem to have the motivation to actually pull out.

3. Am I keeping this out of obligation or expectation?

Chances are there is at least one thing in your home that you’re keeping not because it’s useful or you love it but because it was a gift from someone and you feel obligated to keep it. While I completely understand the desire not to hurt someone’s feelings, I think it is also important to remember that this is your home and if it is affecting your life, it’s okay to declutter gifts as well as the things that you’ve bought for yourself.

4. Am I holding onto this because I think I should love it?

Maybe you have a piece of artwork or a trendy outfit you picked up because they were popular and you felt like you should love them, even though you really don’t. Maybe your craft area is stocked with supplies for a hobby that no longer interests you. In all of these cases, it’s important to consider how you really feel and make your decisions based on those feelings rather than the ones you think you should have!

5. Am I saving this just in case?

One of the most common causes of clutter is a fear of needing something that you’ve given or thrown away. The reality is that if you commit to simplifying and decluttering, chances are that this will happen at some point. But for those of us who take the plunge to get rid of the unnecessary, the benefit of a clutter-free home is almost always worth the tiny bit of regret in these situations.

6. Do I have multiples of the same thing?

How many spoons or spatulas do you really need in your kitchen? Obviously your answer will depend on the type of cook you are, but ask yourself this question whenever you have multiples of any item. There’s a difference between being prepared and more efficient and just creating clutter!

7. Could something else I own do the same job?

I think this is a fun question! As you’re decluttering, look at any specialized tools or items you have and ask yourself if you could do the same job with another item, thereby cutting down on the number of different things you keep. To use another kitchen example, I decided to simplify our entertaining by giving away a bunch of our serving bowls once I bought a set of beautiful stainless steel mixing bowls from Ikea. I use these every day for cooking, but they also make great bowls for chips, dip, ice, et cetera.

8. Am I holding onto a broken item to fix one day?

This is another classic cause of clutter. Perhaps you have a piece of broken furniture or a broken electronic that you’re just sure you will have the time and desire to fix at some point. But ask yourself how long it’s been sitting in storage waiting for that day to come and whether you’re really ever going to get to it as you make the tough decisions about what to keep and what to get rid of.

9. Is this item worth the time I spend cleaning/storing it?

It’s important to remember that both your time and the space in your home have value. Think about how much time you spend cleaning knickknacks that you don’t really love. Or how about the time you spend sorting through the things in storage time and again to either find something you do need or want or to try to declutter once more. Would your life have less stress and busyness without those items?

10. Could I use this space for something else?

Think of the possibilities of what you could do with a closet or storage area in your home if you weren’t holding onto everything that currently fills it. What about a shelf full of knickknacks or books that don’t really interest anyone in your home? Your space has value too, and it’s important to look at the cost of everything you keep in terms of the space it occupies as well.

Which of these questions is the most challenging for you? Are there items in your home that you need to give yourself permission to give or throw away?

Mandi Ehman at Organizing Your Way

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Mandi Ehman

Hi. My name is Mandi and I’m an organizing junkie. I’m also a wife, and Momma to four little girls (5.5, 4, 2.5 and a baby!). I've worked at home since our oldest was a baby, and like a lot of other moms, my life is a constant balancing act of caring for my family and my home, meeting my obligations and finding time for hobbies in there somewhere. Oh, yeah, in the interest of full disclosure, I’m somewhat of a kitchen dunce and I only like to pretend that I’m crafty. Read more here!

22 Responses to “ 10 Questions to Help You Declutter ”

  1. I’m the “saving it just in case” person. Part of it stems from being a teacher and I always look things to use for multiple purposes. But I’m starting to get rid of more and more things. I haven’t braved our extra room in the basement which has become our “storage” for random things. I just don’t know where to start and how to do it…

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  2. Great list! I am helping someone “Overcome Busy In Real Life” right now and we will be talking about decluttering this week. I’m going to save myself some busy and just give her your list!

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  3. I thought of one more…….could someone else benefit from this item, so am I being selfish or hoarding by holding onto it.

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    Mandi Ehman Reply:

    LOVE IT!! What a great question to add to the list, Deb!

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  4. Also, if the item is something that you rarely use, could you borrow it from someone on the occassions when you do need it? For example, when we host our family’s Easter dinner I use an electric handmixer to make the mashed potatoes. This is the only time I use that item though since I prefer a stand mixer. For this occassion I just ask my mom to bring hers over when she comes for dinner. It saves me from having to store an item I use once a year, but I still have the ability to use it with a little preplanning.

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  5. I have to admit that I can answer yes to all of these! I can’t hardly get rid of stuff, saving things for those “someday” projects, or for when I have time to do something with it. As a result I have piles crammed everywhere and shudder to think of how much time I lose just looking for stuff on a daily basis!
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  6. Thanks so much for this list. I have printed it out to have with me as I start my garage decluttering project.

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  7. These are great questions to keep in mind, especially now that I’m spring cleaning. I also ask myself similar questions before I sign up for another freebie or buy something. It helps keep me from bringing more clutter into my home.
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  8. Fantastic list!

    All good questions to ask yourself when decluttering – but number 9 is an especially hitting home for me because as I’m going through things this time around I keep finding little clusters of things I put together LAST time thinking WHY did I keep these when I don’t like them/use them/whatever for a whole other year??

    Happy spring cleaning!
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  9. Wonderful list! I have had such a hard time with stuff. I’m not only a shop when sad person, but clutterbug runs in my family (not sure if that’s habit or genetic). I’m not only printing one for myself while unpacking our home, but printing one for my kids as well. I’m so tempted right now to just take all of the unpacked boxes to goodwill, but I know that I’ll end up losing things I’m not ready to give up if I do that. Thanks again for the help!
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  10. Excellent questions! Another one that came to mind that used to be my biggest hang up was “I paid (x) amount for this! I can’t get rid of it!”

    I have learned, though that the mental peace I have from getting rid of/not having as much stuff is worth more than any amount of money! (I discovered this about myself after reading “It’s All Too Much” by Peter Walsh! Great book!)
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  11. Great list! #8-10 are what caught my eye. I had a basket of things that were broken and they stayed in the basket for over 6 months obviously I’m not going to fix them. I threw everything out yesterday. I guess I really didn’t need those items after all.
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  12. Perfect timing for me! I have to get it together to move by June 1st (eek! a mere 6 weeks away!) and I am a total clutter head. I am going to print this out and keep it nearby when I pack. Everything will go through this evaluation and either end up in a box or a trash / sell / donate pile.
    Thank you!!

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  13. Thanks for posting this. My natural mode is to declutter, but these are great questions to use as reminders. In addition, I am now bound and determined to use my ice cream maker this summer! :)

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  16. You’ve asked all the right questions – Bravo! This puts some concreteness to the de-cluttering process.
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