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9 Tips for Organizing the Memories of Your Childhood and Teenage Years

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source: Janna @ Mommy's Piggy Tales

The following guest post is from Janna at Mommy’s Piggy Tales:

One thing that often gets neglected as we run through our days is story telling and story keeping. In the long run, we would all agree that preserving our story for the ones we love is more valuable than many of our urgent tasks, and yet “write out the stories my childhood” never makes it onto our to do list.

My grandmother was a senior in high school in 1947, and some wise and wonderful English teacher gave her the assignment to write one page about each year of her life from her birth up to her current age. She kept this assignment and recently added to it and gave it to us for Christmas. This has been the most AMAZING gift I have ever received.

Growing up on a farm in Kansas she recalls her pet goat “Billy,” dressing up lambs as babies, and raising chicks with her sister so that they could earn enough money to buy a bicycle to share. She spoke of her fear at the age of eleven when Pearl Harbor was bombed, and her confusion about what it all meant. In high school she served as the editor for the school paper. I love being able to read her story and knowing that it is connected to mine.

My grandmother’s life stories taught me that my story, like yours, is valuable and needs to be heard, but it is not going to get recorded unless I set aside the time and recognize how worthwhile the process and the product will be.

Here are some tips for organizing the memories of your childhood and teenage years.

1. Gather Your Materials

Yearbooks, baby books, photo albums, awards, video and audio recordings, letters, old toys, phone numbers of relatives, scrapbooks, diaries, journals, and art work are all part of your story and will help you remember things you might have forgotten otherwise.

2. Talk to Family, Involve Them in the Process

Give your siblings, parents, or friends a call and laugh and learn as you put the bits and pieces of your memories together to recall stories from your past.

3. Make Writing a Scheduled Habit

One of the main reasons I started my newest blog, Mommy’s Piggy TALES, was to create a weekly accountability for myself and other women to record our youth together. We post stories about a specific age every Thursday and link them up. It’s a fun way to reminisce together about our growing up years.

4. Share Your Stories with Others

As you write down your stories, be sure to email, post, or read the final product to others. Their appreciation for your work will motivate you to continue writing.

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source: Janna @ Mommy's Piggy Tales

5. Make it a Family Event

Pass out lined cards with questions on them, like the lifeprints from Cherish Bound, at the next family gathering and ask your family to write down one of their special memories.

6. Don’t Worry About Being Exhaustive

Write one story at a time. Don’t worry about getting every detail perfect. Start with the stories that you know and love best.

7. Realize the History, Value, and Beauty of Your Story

Writing your story is not self-centered. Do your children know about the trials you faced that made you the person you are today? Have you shared with them that you used to fear many of the things that they fear as a child?

8. The Process is Healing, Gratifying, and Connective

Many of the women participating in Mommy’s Piggy TALES have sent me emails saying how healing the process of remembering their youth has been. Women are connecting in a deeper way with their siblings and parents as they remember their family stories. Amber’s father commented, “all of these stories are making me cry.”

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source: Mommy's Piggy Tales

9. Your Stories Are a Priceless Gift

I’m always on the hunt for meaningful gifts. Recording your youth is a gift that outlasts you. Will you give it?

If you are interested in going on this journey with myself and other women, I would encourage you to read my post 5 Easy Steps to Record Your Youth. I will start a second session on October 7, 2010 and I would love to add you to the list of participants.

What obstacles keep you from writing about your childhood and teenage years?

Decorating with Photos

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A few weeks ago, we talked about decorating with books as an inexpensive way to let your personality shine through in your home, and last week I shared my tips for capturing more of your family’s memories with photos. This week, I want to talk about using those photos to decorate your home.

Often, we relegate pictures to collages or small prints on a picture wall, but you can also use photos in place of traditional art. With that in mind, here are three tips for using your photos as art:

1. Go big!

For the most part, larger pictures make a bigger impact and stand out more than the standard 4x6s or collage mats of the past. Most digital cameras now take pictures that can be blown up to ridiculous sizes without pixelating, so take advantage of the technology and go big where appropriate.

2. Group pictures by color, subject and/or style.

To stand out as art (rather than just a typical family picture wall), group pictures thoughtfully and carefully. First decide what type of pictures you want to highlight on a particular wall. Close-up portraits? Photojournalistic-style photos where the subjects aren’t posed? Landscape or scenery photos? Choose how many you want and what size you’re going to print them. Find frames that match or coordinate. And finally, decide whether you want black and white, sepia or colored photos. Remember that you’re using larger photos, so you’ll use less than you might with smaller ones, but grouping pictures so that they go together can affect the whole feel of a room!

3. Try something different.

One of my favorite photography styles is to just use what would typically be thought of as the bottom half of a photo, whether they be the legs of a newly walking toddler or a family photo where the kids are within the frame but only mom and dad’s legs can be seen. Other styles include taking pictures from behind or that are off-centered or skewed.

Children love to see pictures of themselves, and I love to look at other families’ photos when we visit the home of a friend. With the advent of digital photography, it’s so much easier for ordinary people to take photos that are worthy of being called art. It may take some time and practice, but framing these pictures is a wonderful way to celebrate the people, places and things we love.

Do you use photos as art in your home? What is your favorite tip for taking frame-worthy photos?

Back-to-School Routines

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My monthly column is up at Zen Family Habits, and I’m talking about back-to-school routines!

Has the new school year started for your family?

Whether it’s already back in session or you’re gearing up for it to start in the next few weeks, take some time to think through your family’s routines and schedules during the school year. Look for ways to connect more and get through “transition” times more efficiently to decrease stress for the whole family.

Here are some tips to help you get started, and they’re tips that apply whether your kids attend school or are homeschooled:

Evening Routines

To make your mornings smoother and easier on everyone in the family, try incorporating some of these tasks into your evening routine:

  • Lay out clothes for the next day
  • Make sure backpacks are ready to go by the door
  • Pack lunches
  • Review your schedule, to-do list and meal plan

Getting these things done the evening before – when there is no rush to get out the door – eliminates the stress associated with morning routines so you can start your day out more peacefully.

Read more at Zen Family Habits…

Creating a Cleaning Calendar for Household Chores

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The following is a guest post from Tan at Tan/Green:

My first baby was due on a Wednesday and I started maternity leave the Friday before. In those few intervening days, I experienced a fit of organizational nesting: how was I going to keep track of household chores and keep the house clean once I had a whole new person to care for?

Cleanliness and tidiness are important to my psyche, and I knew that if chores started falling by the wayside I would experience even more stress than that which comes with a first baby! And I know my husband well enough to know that he would help — but that I needed to lead the charge. With all of this in mind, I decided to calendar our chores in a generic, long-term format. (Note: If you like to-do lists, this plan is for you! You get 48 of them, which is not near as crazy as it sounds!)

Here’s how I did it:

1. Starter List

I stood in the center of each room and listed all the cleaning and maintenance chores associated with that room, making sure to include even the most remote tasks like vacuuming under the fridge, dusting the ceiling fan, polishing silver, changing the shower filter, etc.

2. The Breakdown

Next to each task I determined the frequency of the task: daily, weekly, every two weeks, monthly, quarterly, six months and yearly. I found that the daily tasks were already part of our routine so I considered those taken care of and focused on the rest of the list.

3. Weekly To-Do Lists

From the remaining tasks I started four lists – Week 1, Week 2, Week 3 and Week 4. The weekly tasks hit each list, the twice a month tasks were alternated on Weeks 1/3 and Weeks 2/4 and the monthly tasks got added in turn one for Week 1, one for Week 2 and so on till all weekly, twice monthly and monthly tasks were covered. Then, I reviewed the lists to make sure logical tasks were paired (such as laundering the dog beds, cleaning their crates and washing the actual dogs…). These four lists got copied for each month and laid out on the calendar. As a bonus, on months with 5 weeks you get a whole week off!

4. Add Remaining Chores

The weekly and monthly chores fall in place pretty easily but scheduling the quarterly, six month and yearly tasks took a little more effort for me. I needed to try it all on the calendar to “see” where things like ‘clean out garage’ or ‘pot shelves’ should end up. I used a number of sticky notes and some trial and error, but by and large, I added a yearly task to the first week of each month, a six month task to the second week and a quarterly task to the third week. This worked pretty well once I rearranged to match task to season (like cleaning out the garage in the fall) and took into account if multiple tasks would require the same prep work (like moving the bed frame).

5. Put it on the Calendar

As mentioned, I kept my lists on sticky notes – ones large enough that I could write out all four weeks’ lists…resulting in twelve stickies that I can reuse each year when we start our new calendar. And did I mention Week 5 is an off week?

6. Evolve

I don’t know that it is possible to get everything on the lists on the first try but I have found this to be a fantastic framework to add to. It can be an evolving system for your household.

Check in with the family. The first thing my husband said upon seeing “the system” was: what about the yard? Right, that needs care too — so we added it in.

Reassess. Now that you are actually doing tasks on a rotation, is the interval right? Something might need to be done more often and some less often.

Consider changes when they happen. New drapes? Decide where their care fits on the plan. Replacing your flooring? Check out manufacturer recommended care and add it to the calendar.

Now, we haven’t followed our plan to a T, but having the lists done in advance and not having to try to remember the last time we dusted the pot shelves takes a certain level of stress out of caring for the house. Calendaring the chores seemed daunting at first but all in all this took about an hour and a half to accomplish. And since I do love a good To-Do List, I kind of even enjoyed the process!

Tan Wells is a working mom living in Las Vegas.  She has degrees in communication and in technical theater from Penn State and Yale, respectively.  In recent years she has become passionate about natural living, staying organized and balancing a career, a family and personal fulfillment.  Some days that works better than others – you can read about Tan “trying to be a granola mom in a fast food world” at her blog Tan/Green.

Free Online Tools for Tracking Your Goals

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I appreciate your patience over the last couple of days as we’ve been working through some server issues. Everything should be up and running smoothly now! My monthly column is up at Simple Mom, and we’re talking about tools to help you track your goals:

This month at Simple Mom, Tsh is focusing on reviewing — and renewing — our goals. I’ve heard it said that New Year’s resolutions shouldn’t be made in January but rather in September, and it’s true: there is something about the end of summer and the start of the school year that leaves me refreshed and ready to tackle the goals I’ve set for myself!

Today, I want to share with you some free online tools that are available to help you track and achieve your goals. I haven’t used all of these myself, but I’ve read tons of reviews on them, and I think they represent the best of the best. Please feel free to share your experiences – and other services you use to track your goals – in the comments.

Tracking your goals — whether on paper, online, on your phone or on your desktop — is an important part of staying motivated and on track. The cliche “out of sight, out of mind” was coined for a reason, and it’s important to keep any new habit or goal front and center where you can practice thinking about it and making the changes necessary to achieve it.

Read more at Simple Mom…